“I want to give Bonnie Zieman’s book, The Challenge to Heal, to every ex- member of a high-control group, and every therapist, that I can. This book is a gem. It will be essential for people newly out of a high-control group and informative for people out for many years. Therapists who read it will get a primer in understanding the unique challenges facing people who are born into religious high-control groups.
“Zieman offers reasons why people join, and identifies the ways that high-control groups (like religions, gangs, and cults,) impede growth and take away freedoms. I will use this in my work to help people recover from spiritual abuse and recommend it frequently to others. I believe this book will help many people recover, regain agency, and move into a fulfilling life of their own making.” ~Karen Wanjico 12-6-16
“The Challenge to Heal is the kind of book that grows with you. I’ve read it very slowly because it uncovered layers that I didn’t know were there. One of my favorite things about the book is the quotes. I love to have sticky notes and memes around my house as reminders of how I want to show up in my life. Zieman has pulled the best thoughts from around the world – wisdom traditions, philosophy, science, and more – into one place for healing and the inspiration to rebuild your life.
“This books draws out the nuances of cult life so those who have lived the experience can say “YES! That’s what happened to me” and those who have never lived it can begin to understand it. She gives the reader permission to begin healing from their previous life whether it was a religious or political cult or an abusive personal relationship. Many times when people think of self-care they imagine getting their nails done, or soaking in a bath. Zieman takes self care to the inner life where real change and restoration can take place.” ~Emily Krenzke, 5-4-17
“Bonnie Zieman has created an easy to understand, quick reference tool to help therapists understand clients who have cult involvement…
“Zieman discusses the after-effects of love-bombing, isolation, identity formation, control, threats, fears and repression of needs, and much more. She does a good job explaining the differing needs of people who join cults as adults and those who are born in. She does not tell therapists how to treat the client, but shows them the possible issues that may need to be addressed during the therapeutic process. This book can be given to therapists by ex-cult members to ease the transition into therapy.
“I hope this book becomes mandatory reading for students preparing to join the ranks of therapists. I say to therapists, “Buy a copy for yourself and one for a gift” because the need is there.” ~Karen Wilson, 7-6-17
